Two words to remaining on the outskirts of God's grace are pride and complacency. Put the two together and you have a person completely sure of themselves spiritually. This is the goal of the enemy for everyone who makes the decision to become a follower of Jesus. We get enough of faith to believe we have enough faith to stop growing or conforming to the image of Christ. We can rest knowing our eternity is secure, our doctrines are correct, so let's move on to achieving our mission in life to obtain gain.
The evil one is aware that Jesus' words, quoting from the Song of Songs, about the little things ending our fruit-bearing lives:
"Catch us the foxes, the little foxes that spoil the vines, for our vines have tender grapes." Song of Songs 2:15
Little things ignored kill big hopes. But complacency or not feeling like doing spiritual practices in our lives doesn't always murder our desire to follow God's plan for our lives. We can be complacent and have the sudden epiphany like the prodigal son...why am I here eating with pigs?
"But when he came to himself, he said, "How many of my father's hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger?" Luke 15:17
Complacency is bad. But one may just fall into complacency from having so much activity that they stop spending time looking to please God, serve others, do the next right thing. They may suddenly say, "Why are things so out of whack?", then ask the Source for help.
Now add pride to the equation. Thinking I know enough and don't need to go further even though everything is falling apart, is spiritual suicide. That is the place where humility makes it's exodus from our heart. We can fix the problem by sheer willpower and not humbly seek help in prayer or from talking to another believer. The crux of the problem when the two meet is we forget what or where God brought us from. Gratitude, the mother of all virtue is no longer something we think of. Pride says you made it happen...gratitude says it is by God's grace alone that I stand.
Had God not led me to recovery rooms, I may have never noticed how closely recovery and being a follower of Christ are related. I have seen many with long-term sobriety relapse. I have seen many long-time Christians fall deeply into sin...I was one who did. Maybe you are there now. If you are not able to recall how long it has been since you approached God for any reason, you have arrived in the danger zone. You cannot shirk this off with "I'll be okay" thinking.
Get with God without delay. Find another believer to talk to. Humble yourself. Don't swallow your pride...puke it out. If you fear talking to another, know why you fear that. It is pride in it's true form. You don't want to appear weak or un-spiritual. Do not allow the enemy to have this victory. The ripple effect is devastating.
Thanks for reading, God bless and keep you all.