You want to go to a great leadership seminar but don't have the money? Well, I can't float you a loan, but I can give you some advice in a few short minutes that saves you from three days of training. Don't misunderstand, I'm not being an arrogant know-it-all. This advice comes from scripture and from training I have received over the decades in sales and church ministry training.
The first thing
If you are having success in a certain ministry, does it make you feel good to be recognized? Really, who doesn't appreciate recognition for a job well done? Putting hours on end into service, and then dealing with those difficult "children of the Lord," ought to be rewarded with at recognition if nothing else, right?
Paul had to write the Corinthian church, reminding them they were still "carnal" because of the report he received that the church was dividing itself by boasting about which "big time evangelist" baptized them.
..."one of you says, 'I follow Paul'; another, 'I follow Apollos'; another, 'I follow Cephas', still another, 'I follow Christ.' Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you?"...For Christ did not send me to baptize, but to preach the gospel-not with human words of wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be EMPTIED of it's power." 1 Cor. 1:12-13, 17 (read the whole passage 10-17)
Die to applause, don't worry about who gets credit. You are only leading by God's grace in Christ. Needing praise for your "ministry" is "you centered" and will cause a power outage in your spirituality. "But it is my ministry, what God gave me to do." you say. Really?
"All of me, none of God. Some of me, some of God. None of me, all of God." anon.
The number two reason
Leader: Here is what we are going to do.
Helpers: I don't know about that.
Leader: This is not subject to discussion.
Helpers: That's messed up...that won't work, I think I'll find another church to attend.
Why have leaders that have no part in the ministry? Here's why. You need them to lead the groups to follow YOUR agenda...WRONG. If you are here, return to Go, directly to go and do not collect $200. (monopoly players get that) It is not about you. If you think it is, resign immediately and get to celebrate recovery for your megotistic approach.
"For waging war you need guidance, and for victory many advisers." Prov.24:6
"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another." Prov.27:17
Please hear what I'm trying to say. Give your ministry a real nice burial. Take what God has given you in talent as a seed to plant in others. The idea is to multiply your talent, magnify Christ, glorify God, and the Holy Spirit will lead people to what God is doing in your group. You plant, another waters...and God gives the increase. Paradoxically, you give praise away, God increases you.
We give nothing that God does not honor, when we give it to, or in honor of Him.
I hope you give these two reasons some thought. There are others, perhaps for another time.
Thanks for reading, God bless and keep you all.